Does Usman Umar AKA Sojaboy Have A Daughter?
SUMMARY
- Usman Umar, known as Sojaboy, has been in unsuccessful relationships with older American women on 90 Day Fiancé.
- Despite being engaged to Kim Menzies, Usman wanted a second wife to have children, causing turmoil in their relationship.
- Usman introduced a new girlfriend, Kiera Elise, after splitting from Kim, but left fans questioning if he became a new dad in 2024.
90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Usman Umar AKA Sojaboy seems to have recently become a new dad. Usman is a 35-year-old musician from Nigeria who achieved worldwide fame after his 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 4 debut. Usman has appeared in the franchise with two different women since his debut, but both relationships were toxic and eventually, unsuccessful. Usman was accused of dating older American women who could fall for his charms and bring him to the U.S.
Usman’s last on-screen relationship with Kim Menzies didn’t fare well despite her being smitten by the singer for years. Kim had infamously showered multiple expensive presents on Usman. What Kim couldn’t give Usman was a child. Kim and Usman’s 18-year age difference ensured she would never agree to have a kid with him. Kim’s own son, Jamal Menzies, was 27 years old when she and Usman started dating.
Usman Was Married To Lisa Hamme On 90 Day Fiancé
Lisa Was Reportedly Removed From The Franchise For Insulting Usman
Before Kim, Usman was a part of the 90 Day Fiancé franchise with Lisa AKA his “Babygirl.” Usman and Lisa starred in 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 4. Lisa had met Usman on Facebook while he was still an aspiring artist in his home country. They had a 20-year age gap between them and came from different cultural backgrounds, but the budding hip-hop artist seemed to have taken a liking to Lisa. Usman even wrote a song for Lisa, who earned a living as a hospice care worker in York, Pennsylvania back then.
Lisa had thought Usman was a Yahoo boy who was just looking for a woman to bring him to the U.S.
She knew that their relationship seemed unrealistic due to their massive age gap. However, Lisa gave it a chance anyway, only to feel insecure when she saw Usman surrounded by his female fans in Nigeria. The couple did get married during her first trip to Usman’s country, but Lisa and Usman had split while the show was still on air. Lisa claimed Usman married her to be on the TV show and gain exposure to sell his music.
Usman Became Kim Menzies’s Boyfriend On Before the 90 Days
Kim Was Usman’s Biggest Fangirl
Lisa wasn’t wrong because Usman did gain a large following from the show and most fans liked his music. Kim was one of these fans who became an ardent admirer of rapper and singer Sojaboy. She only had two loves in her life, Michael Jackson and Usman. Kim had been messaging Usman on social media and when he messaged her back, Kim fell in love with the “international superstar” Usman AKA Sojaboy. Kim now wanted to be Usman’s girlfriend while he was still in a relationship with a woman named Zara. After his split, Usman invited Kim to Tanzania.
Usman took a lot of convincing from Kim to become her boyfriend.
She was desperate and Usman finally gave in to her advances. Kim and Usman were engaged when they started their Happily Ever After? season 6 journey after Before the 90 Days season 5. Kim flew to Nigeria to seek Usman’s family’s blessings even though she knew their age was a problem. Usman’s mother didn’t like the fact that Kim was 50.
“Marry a fertile girl who is of tender age.”
Usman’s mother wanted him to stop bringing older women from a faraway world to their home.
90 Day Fiancé: Signs Usman Umar Wants To Get Back Together With Kim
90 Day Fiancé couple Kim Menzies and Usman “Sojaboy” Umar aren’t together anymore. Usman’s recent IG antics suggest he wants to reconcile with Kim.
Usman’s mother knew that he was making a mistake by marrying Kim. She preferred him to marry a local woman who would be closer to his age and belong to their community. Usman’s mother hoped to be able to see his children someday. Usman’s mother had introduced him to an 18-year-old woman named Fareedet who he went to meet despite his relationship with Kim. Usman flirted with Fareedet and told the producers that she was “beautiful“. Fareedet confessed that she always wanted to get married and “produce children” and she saw Usman as her future husband.
Usman Wanted To Have A Second Wife To Have A Baby
Kim Couldn’t Have Kids With Usman
Usman’s family handed Kim a contract that stated that she had to give up to be with Usman permanently. It mentioned that while Usman’s mother had accepted her to be her daughter-in-law, Kim had to allow Usman to take a second wife and have children with her. Kim seemed to have agreed to this condition, along with the fact that if Usman moved to America, he would be able to visit his family four times a year. Kim was fine with these odd terms and conditions. She gladly signed the contract as he permitted her to marry her dream man.
Kim later had a change of heart when she met Usman’s friend, KB, with two wives and nine children. “I have the potential to have nine [kids], you know. I don’t want to take long time so why not have two more wives plus you four?” Usman told Kim. Kim thought it was the dumbest thing Usman had ever said. Kim was okay with Usman having another wife, but now, he was talking about having three or four. Kim and Usman later learned that Usman wouldn’t get a green card if he had another wife outside the U.S.
Usman & Kim Decided To Adopt His Nephew
Kim & Usman Argued Over Mahadi’s Adoption
Since Usman couldn’t get another wife to bear him a child, he decided he would adopt his brother’s child. Usman approached his brother Mohammed to ask him if he could hand Mahadi over to them. Usman assured Mohammed that he’d take “Hundred percent” care of his nephew. He knew that it meant uprooting Mahadi from his parent’s home, country, and culture and taking him to a different place. Mohammed wished for his child to have an Islamic orientation. Kim and Usman fought over the idea of adoption because she didn’t want to raise another child at her age.
What Happened To Usman After His Split With Kim?
Usman Dated Kiera Elise
Kim and Usman began arguing after they met Mahadi and his parents. They split up but did manage to remain friends. Kim hinted at a reconciliation with Usman at the Tell All. By March 2023, Usman revealed he was in love again. Usman introduced a woman named Kiera Elise to his Instagram fans as his new girlfriend. Usman was off the market for a very short time because Kiera revealed they had split in July 2023. Kiera was young and just two years older than Usman. Usman may have finally been able to achieve his baby dream, but now it wasn’t possible.
Does Usman Have A Baby In 2024?
Did Usman Get Married To Someone After Kim & Kiera Split?
On 26 March 2024, Usman posted pictures of the birthday party of a little girl. Usman held the baby in his arms and grinned at the camera as he posed in front of three large Disney-themed cakes. In a different photo, Usman stood next to two unknown Nigerian women at the party. However, fans were confused by Usman’s caption. Usman wrote, “Happy Birthday my daughter, may you be successful in this life Ameen.” 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days fans asked if he had become a new dad. However, Usman is yet to respond to these confused fans.
